If there's survey about the female dream, almost all women will answer married and had the child in their future dream.
It seems there's not a woman that did not crave the life of the harmonious household.
But, the main condition got the happiness was to find the living couple that in accordance with us.
Might we could find the sweetheart that as hope?
To get the appropriate couple, his key word dalah realistic.
Realistic was not identical to be forced or surrendered .
Remembered always the saying that said did 'not have tusks that not the crack', that meaning that approximately was to not have perfect humankind.
Don't had dreamt of getting the living couple like in tevenoleva or the fairy tale 1001 nights.
Look for someone who had much compatibility and received his lack.
, we also had the lack.
It was important that the lack still in our acceptance limit.
Meaning that remembered once more, realistic not meant to be forced or surrender.
According to the research, most men did not throw energy totalling the woman when they looked for the couple away.
They more often focussed themselves on the career and the hobby.
Therefore, to dpaat met the man, you must find out what was liked by you, then undertook the hobby.
When liking to read the book, don't be hesitant to the book shop, who knew had the 'sweet creature' who came to approach you!
The aim of doing this was when doing matters that were liked, you will feel happy.
And knew you when feeling happy you will be seen pretty interesting.
Also when doing the matter that was liked, you will not feel the pressure to immediately get the couple.
Precisely you will more feel relaxed and found it easy to meet the friend.
Sharon Wolf, psikoterapis from New York, said we could leaf through the long address book to find someone yag agreed.
Look for old friends you and the telephone they.
Say you were improving your telephone note, and from chatted-chatted light by him.
This could open the road for you to continue to establish contact with old friends and not only for personal relations, who knew was useful also to your career.
Your Place found the man was the same the importance by means of carrying out the first approach.
When you had a friendly attitude, you can be acquainted with many people.
You could begin by smiling or began with minor conversation.
We will not feel unfortunate if having a friendly attitude to the other person, for example by greeting someone who sat in you.
The other Method that could be carried out was to go to the agendas remained single.
Pilihkan places gathered that in accordance with your interest, for example the religious group or clubs that khus held the agenda for remained single.
Followed these agendas was very good for established socialisation relations with the other person.
Don't had felt embarrassed because by following this column, you could choose someone that according to you really as hoped uptil now.
In the partner's contact, that was first, you did not give the personal identity original until you were sure your penfriend got along well with you.
Secondly, when finally The Two Of You memtuskan for 'land coffee', went to the place of the public.
Don't go to the quiet place and only berdua, asked your friends in the meeting of early or most not let know they where you will go, this to mejaga the security himself.
And you too could refuse his invitation to go to places that were not liked by you or were doubted by you.
Good Luck !!!
March 19, 2007
The Ideal Man
March 04, 2007
About Love (1)
If I speak in the tongues of human and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
Go for someone who made you smile because only the smile needed to make the dark day was seen obviously.
There was the time in living when you felt really yearned for someone and you hoped could take her/him from your dream and embraced her/him in the real life!
Dreamed what you want to dream about, went where you wanted to go, was what was wanted by you because you only had one life and one opportunity to do all the matters that you want to did.
March 01, 2007
10 Obligatory discussions before Marriage
Developed a relations needed investment and if want to saw your investment you growth, you must know what was wanted from the relations. Important to knew the couple's opinion about various views to afterwards the day. So tried to discuss several matters along with this with your colleague's candidate.
If you have been established and felt that relations have with the couple been stable, asked his opinion concerning the marriage and relations generally.
Did he see you as his future?
You must know was as important whether these relations for you and how his position in your heart.
Whether he wanted baby presence immediately after Both Of you married?
Or he wanted to postpone because still wanted to feel the honeymoon with you?
For example, you were thinking about the name for your child, but he was planning to begin his career. What will be you done?
Mature and created the clear two-way communication, was open and honest.
Compatibility was the matter that was very important in all relations, but far more important in the bed.
Persuaded that both Of you was in same appetite so effort search will become the pleasant part.
What that he liked did?
He more liked gathered with his friends in weekend than attended the family weekly agenda?
Better look for the best agreement in this case, because often matters happened that this case could make a household become broke.
understood pleasure and dislike will be important for the growth of relations The Two Of You.
You might have lot of difference in this case, but not to be made an issue of. Both of you need mutual understanding for this.
In modern life, in fact, the person who most different in the religion principle of the life could undergo the life with happiness.
Although being different, between personal must have the feeling of mutual tolerance concerning their respective conviction.
However, was suggested better that both Of you had the same spiritual conviction.
Whether having the friction between the family's member?
Understood the family's candidate will be better than underwent the household life without family's support.
You will never know when you needed the offer from your family and the couple.
health problems was your appropriate important matter to knew before the marriage done.
the attitude appreciated each other needed to create eternal relations. One of them was by means of considering important dates for both of you.
combined the aspirations and the dream also was the important matter.
If the couple expected you to become the housewife, in other side you still loved your career. Better discussed again each other.
Entered the marriage gate wasn't as beautiful as the Cinderella story. The true love needed the sacrifice.
Then, could you and the couple sacrifice their respective ego in order to be created a harmonious and eternal relations?
Further, please took the decision.
Don't had taken the decision if only be forced, because this especially was related to your life.
And you had the right got that was best that you was wanted.
February 28, 2007
Carried out of the the Men's Heart
The men was not easy to reveal the love.
The love for them significant with the commitment.
So they were very careful in revealing the feeling and their heart to the woman. Moreover several men among them will not make a commitment before being sure that the woman who was loved was the woman who was exact as the colleague of his life.
That makes several women who became wondering about their relations with the men. How the men's method in revealing the contents of their heart?
Let's carry out that all.
for the man in fact said three words were a big step because more than just expressed the feeling.
For several love men was felt as a commitment lived and for some people was full of the danger.
In a frightened manner the refusal became the man's reason for being reluctant to say the love because of the refusal for most men was very painful.
Most men must feel safe in a relations before he dared to say these words.
For another part said “I Love You” meant me offered a commitment and for many love men was revealed through the action so as the words were a promise that must join.
the Gift could be still being made by man as the love expression. There were many gift kinds was different that a normal man gave, could take the form of peppermints, the flower, chocolate and the special note.
But had another thing that the woman often did not realise.
For several men, gave time was the form of the gift.
When a man often spent time together, this the method he said that he chose you to be loved.
the Affection could be significant some of the held the hands, stroked, until make in love. In fact, most men were able easily to reveal their feeling while being in love. Physical contact was able easily to destroy the obstacle and to give the close feeling until being not able easily to be received in the other method. This could become a problem that was complicated because sex could mean many matters was different for each individual.
Most women needed the affection including sex because this made they loved and felt they were loved.
But in fact, for several women, they must hear words 'love' was said ton, and gave the affection with a woman, this the method he revealed the love.
For women, love meant mutual match requirement.
the other Method were by bringing you to the house met the family, relatives and his friend.
This meant a guidance that the man had the feeling more in to you. Not only he was proud against you, but he also wanted to connect you with people who close to you as far as you became part of his life. In this stage possibly he has been ready to continue to the further level with you.
So, are you ready to love and was loved?
Don't forget, the love not about the profit - the loss, but what was honestly, what you felt actually.
The decision on your hands, it is hoped was successful.
